Lets face it!

At some point in life, we have all hit the "brick wall". It doesn't really matter why you got there, it happens to the best of us! HOW you’re going to make it go away is what really matters! Right? God knows I'm no life coach, but, here's a suggestion!

Now, remember, nothing I'm saying here is a law of the universe or some deeply coded message from the gods! This has worked for me and maybe it’ll work for you too. To get past the wall you’d have to cut corners around it, climb over it or turn back. That’s just not going to cut it (pun intended).

You run straight through it! No, no, seriously I'm not crazy.

I can imagine the idea of running through an actual brick wall seems absurd unless you’re a Flintstone. But that's exactly what you should do. Just do it!

It’s not going to be easy and it's more than probably going to hurt like hell! You might be stuck there for days, weeks, maybe longer.  You'll need a few tools to help you out like patience and determination and you’ll need to push the "give myself some slack" button.

Really, you don't need to beat yourself up anymore, remember the ugly giant wall in front of you has got that covered. You will get bruised up a bit, but don't worry, nothing wrong with a couple of battle marks, they're like souvenirs; you know, been there, done that.

If you chose to climb over instead, it will be just as hard, only difference is, when you look back the wall will still be there. Worst of all, all that is a part of you is lost behind it!

Should you take my foolish advice, just make sure you leave a perfect body outline so that when you look back at that damn wall all you see is victory. Should that wall stand in your way again, you'll have a much better view through it of what’s ahead. Believe me, the hole gets bigger and bigger every time you go through, until finally the whole wall crumbles.

As for you, well lets just say, you'll become the master of kicking walls' asses! You'll take your pile of bricks and build the highest mountain. You'll stand at the very top, throw your hands up in the air, lean back and scream as loud as you can.

Oh, and don't forget to dance your ass off!

Seriously, what else do you have to lose?

*** Roquell M. kicks ass, speaks the truth, and takes no prisoners regularly on her blog